Thursday, December 28, 2023

Milestones

Our life is measured by milestones and the majority of us cannot escape it's hold on us. When we are born, our parents count the milestones. Our first word, first steps, and it goes on until one is put in school. And from there, we take over the counting. As children, all we ever wanted to do want was play. I can still remember the excitement and the anticipation that one had when the time came to play. In those days it used to be any game and mostly outside. And then we ourselves started to give more importance to the milestones and forgot to enjoy the journey itself.

One such milestone happened in my life too; our daughter's marriage. Only when the time started to plan the wedding ceremony did it dawn upon me that she will soon leave to start her own family. Yes... I panicked and lost sleep too. I wanted to have more of her in the short that time that one had which was impossible. 

I try telling others to enjoy the time when they have their baby or when they are going to school. But then there is no use, since all are counting milestones and only a few are lucky to enjoy all the lovely moments in between.


3 comments:

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  2. Hi, after so long !
    Time changes everything. Just look at the way we handles our blogposts. Time moves and priorities change. We look at our children they way our parents looked at us some time back. Soon, you will become a grandparent too . Then, you will start worrying about them and their future ! Thats life

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  3. Only today I found this comment.. sorry for not having responded earlier. The comments are not appearing in my email.. need to check... What you said is true!!

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