Today is a day of remembrance and a day for celebration.
It is a day to remember Achayan (my FIL) who left us this day two years back. Achaya..you will always live in our memories.
It is also a day to remember 2 decades of our married life. Yes..it has been so long!
Over the years, we fought like cats..
.....and made up like love birds!
Watching us, the world may call us the least compatible couple.. but we learned much from each other and changed for each other.
But the greatest achievement of our union is our two children whom we love and adore.
During this short life full of ups and downs I have realized how fickle relationships can be.
How easy it is to blame than to accept.
How easy is to hurt than to forgive.
How easy it is to give up than continue.
How easy it is to cut relationships than to nurture it.
Our children too shall leave this home we created lovingly very soon, to face the world and to know people better or worse than us. Let me pray that they shall forgive and forget whatever we have omitted to teach them and whatever we taught them unintentionally. Let me pray that they shall always remember that we did our best and will reach out to us during their times of difficulties and triumphs.
Let me also thank God for not giving me everything that I have prayed for, but for giving me so many things that I have never prayed for but is very precious.
It is a day to remember Achayan (my FIL) who left us this day two years back. Achaya..you will always live in our memories.
It is also a day to remember 2 decades of our married life. Yes..it has been so long!
Over the years, we fought like cats..
.....and made up like love birds!
Watching us, the world may call us the least compatible couple.. but we learned much from each other and changed for each other.
But the greatest achievement of our union is our two children whom we love and adore.
During this short life full of ups and downs I have realized how fickle relationships can be.
How easy it is to blame than to accept.
How easy is to hurt than to forgive.
How easy it is to give up than continue.
How easy it is to cut relationships than to nurture it.
Our children too shall leave this home we created lovingly very soon, to face the world and to know people better or worse than us. Let me pray that they shall forgive and forget whatever we have omitted to teach them and whatever we taught them unintentionally. Let me pray that they shall always remember that we did our best and will reach out to us during their times of difficulties and triumphs.
Let me also thank God for not giving me everything that I have prayed for, but for giving me so many things that I have never prayed for but is very precious.